According to the American politician Jane D. Hull, “At the end of the day, the most overwhelming key to a child’s success is the positive involvement of parents”, that’s why we are focusing on this topic. We believe that parents play a big role of the motivator to children and can do the miracle to improve their children’s education and career by doing good communication to each other. In this article, we are trying to tell some of the reasons that may lead your children to get bad marks in their results.
Some mindset assumptions to have bad results in exams
Your children’s results in exams are the blueprint of student’s academic performance in the school’s examination. They are used to determine student’s progress. Bad results are showing student’s poor achievements like for example when they get an F grade or being failed in school’s academic works. Our society holds the concept that bad results are the indicator to measure children’s qualities. Most of the parents think achieving good marks in the standard test is one approach to be successful professionally and academically. If children get bad marks then parents are worrying about their professional and academic success. After looking bad results of children, the parent often starts to blame their children on key reasons for not doing homework properly, lack of diligence or poor preparation. First and foremost your children’s attitude, values, behavioral skills are influenced by study environment. Every individual has different personality and interest by birth. Some students couldn’t recognize their interest and choose popular subjects while some are forced to choose specific subjects. In that reasons, they couldn’t be concentrated well enough. Some children are overconfident about their subjects and negligence to read properly. Other major problem is the procrastination means most of the children have habits to say tomorrow, while tomorrow never comes. Most of the children are reading books for long periods to let their parents know that they are well studying, but they are only studying without much attesting in the topic of the books. So without giving proper concentration on the respective subject that couldn’t be learning. Another leading cause to get poor marks in exams is that most children have weak organizational and understanding skills to answer the questions or suffer from exam anxiety. Sometimes, children have a health problem which distracts them to study well. Similarly, lack of good guidance, assistance, and drug abused are the issues to leads to poor academic performance. Besides all, education, teaching, and family environments have a big influence in bad results.
Some methods that parents can follow to minimize the ‘problems’
Parents tend punish their children physically and emotionally just by looking at their results without finding out background reasons of failing. Sometimes, to escape from punishment, children try to hide the poor results from them. It is understandable as they can feel certain guilt and are scared to show the results to their parents. Simply becuase the kid didnt not get a good result, disciplining them could have an adverse effect. Wrong way of guidance might not improve the grades, it may just worsen the problem.
What we suggest
If your children get poor result; start the conversation with them in a positive and motivational manner and listen to them. Rather than taunting and using discouraging words, find out the hidden reasons collaboratively. It’s better to motivate them, keep faith on them, aware them their knowledge, skill, and strengths and focus on the subjects they are good at. Keep an eye on your children’s behavior. Find out the reasons for failing the exam. If you couldn’t find out your children’s failing reasons then consult with an academic counselor or the class teacher. In conclusion, parents are the trusted person for children so provide them appropriate environments. Your children have capacities from birth so boost them. Everything is possible if you exercise it in the right way.
Keep an eye on your children’s behavior. Find out the reasons for low grades. If you can’t find out your children’s failing reasons, then consult with an academic counselor or the class teacher.
In conclusion, parents are the trusted people for children, so provide them appropriate environment to grow. Your children have capacities from birth, so boost them, recognize them. Everything is possible if you exercise it in the right way.